In a previous post, I spoke to giving yourself a “break” from the news cycle. Staying informed is different from donning the uniform of mental miasma resulting in fear. Where do we go to find relief? Regardless of where you travel, even if you left the country, it would still be there. Trails I frequent are more crowded, where they once were sparsely populated. Depending upon your living situation, you may not want more alone time. However, sheltering in place with your family may mean to others TIME TO GET AWAY. What does getting away look like?
We put a lot of emphasis on physical fitness. What about mental fitness?
The reason for the name change for this blog, was that I wanted to be more than another fitness tip and staying well website. You can find that anywhere & everywhere. Now especially, many trainers have gone online or virtual. If you are feeling not quite yourself and need someone to talk to, you are not alone. There are sites equipped to help with that too.
But when you finish your virtual workout, end your TALKSPACE session. and still aren’t feeling connected, where do you go?
You are still faced with yourself by yourself. You can only feign interest in other’s lives or events for so long. What about yours? Would you be sacrificing connections if you went your own way? Let others go theirs? Yes you would. But that isn’t such a bad thing. Sometimes you have to be out on that proverbial limb by yourself for awhile. You start to discover your own niche, and that you can be your own best friend. Few of us want to feel lonely. But would it be so terrible to discover what it means to be alone? With our own thoughts, understanding, as well as fears? If this seems too much to bear, consider this: companionship starts with being a companion. How can you be a companion if it unnerves you to discover who you are? Without the chatter of those around us defining our interests?
Is this subject a little deep? I think not. It’s one of the reasons why PERSONAL TRAINING WITH CRYSTAL is now LIFE TRAINING WITH CRYSTAL. There’s more to this life than being defined by our mutual fears, tendencies, or capacities. Discovering your uncommon ground I know is a little scary. But it’s necessary if you want to come out from under the cloud cover blanketing many.
Whether air travel is frequent or infrequent for you, you are probably aware of cloud cover. There are many passengers on a plane. They range from very learned, to those who exercise their stupidity to the fullest. If you haven’t had that experience in the air, count yourself lucky. In any case, unless another pilot is traveling other than the ones flying the plane, no matter how learned or simple the passengers may be, no one else has the skill to elevate that plane. No one else knows how to lift off, elevate the nose, ascend, and eventually transcend that cloud cover. Few possess this skillset; it has to be developed. Those that do have a great responsibility on their shoulders. But for them it may appear as if effortless.
What skills could you hone to elevate? Lift your nose, ascend and eventually transcend the cloud cover hovering in your life? For each of us the answer is different. And it may be a different answer than the year, month, or week before.
In my experience asking questions are just as, if not more important that immediate answers.
They help lift me above the prevailing appearance of darkness. They raise my awareness and eventually elevate me from the ground. Yes there are clouds. And just above them is the sun.
All for now. Keep up and keep at it.
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